I am now a divorcé. The final hearing was early this morning, and there was no earth-shattering kaboom. The judge didn't even bang a gavel to signify the dissolution of our social construct. So far today it's a bit like one of those divisible-by-ten birthdays where you wake up and realize that you don't really feel different than the day before, contrary to built-up expectations.In my head I had been using the "Life 2.0" metaphor for a long time now. Somehow I actually set myself up to expect a sea change. That's silly, of course, because changes to life really get rolled-out as a long series of little, frequent patches.
I'm not at all disappointed that it didn't end with a bang. That it started with one was enough for me.
All in all, life is good.
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